It was about a year and a half ago that “Bones” actor David Boreanaz admitted to the public that he had cheated on his wife. That was in response to the news that Tiger mistress Rachel Uchitel was about to go to the press with details and text messages revealing an affair with him. Back then Boreanaz said “Our marriage has been tainted with my infidelities. I just want to be open and honest… I was associated with a woman who I was involved with and had a relationship with. She asked for money. I felt as though I was being blackmailed or there was some sort of extortion.”

Somehow he tried to make it sound noble that he was coming out with this information and as if he were doing the right thing and the cheating wasn’t entirely his fault. “We’re working on repairing what has been damaged so badly.” Boreanaz sounded so much to me like Jesse James, who made it sound like he was brave and manly by admitting that he’d cheated. And, like Jesse, we inevitably heard of a sexual harassment lawsuit and a stripper that Boreanaz had banged. Surely there were more than those three women.

Boreanaz’s wife forgave him, though, and I’m sure the $30,000 diamond and gold bracelet he gave her didn’t hurt matters. The 42 year-old actor spoke to TV Week about his cheating, and he spewed a bunch of crap that made it sound like sending dick pics to random women ended up helping his marriage.

David Boreanaz clearly believes in the power of positive thinking.

The actor, who came clean about cheating on wife Jaime Bergman with Rachel Uchitel in May 2010, tells TV Week that his affair has been “a bonding experience, in the long run.”

“In a sacred ground like marriage, you find yourself out of it at certain times for reasons unknown that can be destructive,” the 42-year-old actor explains. “There could be a demon that kind of comes out and overtakes you.”

In any relationship, there are “fantastic” moments and “extremely rocky” moments, Boreanaz adds.

The New York native and Bergman, a former Playboy Playmate, wed in November 2001, just nine months after they met during a Valentine’s Day party at the Playboy Mansion.

“Do I believe in giving up?” Boreanaz asks TV Week. “No, I don’t. I’m a fighter. I’m a lover.”

Bergman and Boreanz are parents to son Jaden, 9, and daughter Bella, 2.

[From US Weekly]

It sounds like this ass went to therapy with his wife and learned to talk around the fact that he was picking up any chick that would have him and that he was trolling for strange at work, and at strip clubs. He probably never admitted the amount of women he was sleeping with, (just like Jesse James) and he probably doesn’t think it matters anyway. In his mind, it all worked out for the best since his wife and the mother of his kids didn’t leave him for it. She probably loves him, believed most of his lies and didn’t want to break up her family over this. It’s typical and it’s sad.

These photos are from the Emmy Awards on 9/18/11. Look at his hair!

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