Laguna Beach and The Hills reality star turned football wife and mother of two, Kristin Cavallari is enjoying her time as a mommy and wife. The reality television star recently welcomed her second son with husband Jay Cutler, and she’s feeling much more relaxed and at ease this time around.

“You’re definitely more relaxed with the second one because you’re not stressed out by questioning everything that you’re doing,” she says of parenting her three month old son, Jaxon Wyatt. Jaxon joined the family earlier this year and made 2-year-old Camden Jack a big brother. According to Cavallari, being a mother of two has changed her life dramatically, including her outlook on having future children and her original life plan.

“Before we had children, Jay and I both wanted four, and now we’re thinking three, but we’re just going to have to see how it goes. Right now the last thing on my mind is having another baby, but it is a lot of fun,” she says of her plan to have kids with her husband. The couple has been together off and on for several years before finally tying the knot.

With two boys at home, Cavallari doesn’t have nearly as much time for herself as she once did. Anyone who watched her on Laguna Beach or The Hills knows she was a social butterfly always on the lookout for a new boyfriend and/or the next big party. Becoming a mother has definitely changed the reality star. Her idea of a party these days is getting a few moments alone when her kids’ naps overlap.

“You have zero time to yourself now. Camden takes a nap at one o’clock, so when Camden’s going down, Jax is just waking up to eat and play, so there’s literally no time,” she says of her days parenting two kids.

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